the things we remember most in this life… regaring the ones we care about more than anything…

wont be their actions.

or the words they speak.

it wont be the gifts given….

or special times shared.

more and more im realizing, that the things we will remember most vividly… will be when they let the silence speak for them.

it may be that they simply stand silently with you, knowing words wont change anything, as you watch your family disintegrate.

it may be that they support you through silent love and emotionally being there, when your world falls apart….

or it may simply be that the silence… was caused by them not being there.

i firmly believe that you dont truly know someone until you’ve expierenced there silence…

because in the silence… the truth begins to scream.