You are currently browsing the category archive for the ‘Endless Beauty’ category.
the last time i sat, and simply watched the world go by, i was more than a thousand miles from here. and, as im now realizing, facing some of the same challenges. and i grasped then, as i do now, that there is so much more going on here than i’ll probably ever understand. that there is more to the story than i allow myself to see.
i, like so many of us, had given up on the mythos that calls to our hearts. the mystery and myth that swirls through our favorite stories. i’d given up on adventure, on stories worth telling.
in so many ways, ive believed the lie that this life is all that there is. that face value, is real value.
and i am reminded tonight that there is more to the story than i see right now. that life isnt 9-5, pivot tables and time-sheets. im reminded that we were called to live life abundantly. and i am reminded that there exists one who’s very goal is to keep us from that life.
John Eldredge in Waking the Dead talks of this mythos. of realizing that there is more. he says
“of all the Eternal Truths we dont believe, this is the one we doubt most of all. our days are not extraordinary. they are filled with the mundane, with hassles mostly. and we? we are… a dime a dozen. nothing special really. probably a disappointment to God. but as CS Lewis wrote, “the value of… myth is that it takes all the things we know and restores them to the rich significance which has been hidden by the ‘veil of familiarity.'” you are not what you think you are. there is a glory to your life that your enemy fears, and he is hell-bent on destroying that glory before you act on it. this part of the answer will sound unbelievable at first; perhaps it will sound too good to be true; certainly, you will wonder if its true for you. but once you begin to see with those eyes, once you have begun to know it is true from the bottom of your heart, it will change everything.
the story of your life is the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it.”
so as i sit, and the world is passing me by, i am realizing, again that starbucks, commuting, and this 2 dimensional world i so often chose to live in, isnt all there is.
i spent the majority of last week in Michigan on business. and throughout the trip, i kept mulling on the word adventure. i had prayed, before i left, that the trip would be a success and that i would find an adventure. the trip went well, and although the adventure i’d asked for did come, it wasnt at all what i had expected.
one comment my boss said last week, stuck with me. we were talking about hobbies, about how i love antiques and music, and about how he loves classic cars and 40’s big band. and he said that when he retired, he’d love to set up a dark room, go shooting, and develop his own photos.
he said it wasnt because he wanted to be a great photographer, or that he even enjoyed taking pictures. he said….
“sometimes, its not the picture that matters. sometimes is the process of developing it.”
sometimes its not the destination that matters, but the process of getting there.
sometimes, its not where one is headed, but that one travels. sometimes the goal isnt the destination, but about living life. and you… i will never live this life sitting still. i wont live it behind a computer screen, or inside my cocooned world of electronic gadgetry.
life is found when we risk something. and life is lived, when we get something wrong. when we think we know something, and we realize that we were completely incorrect.
and completely incomplete.
its in those moments, when another page of our story is written. and we look back upon the words we spoke, the messages we delivered, the way we loved, or didnt, and we learn. we learn who we are, and where we need to change. we learn about our lives, our hearts, our hurts, and the hurts of others.
its in those moments that we see ourselves for who we really are.
and its in those moments we see others for who they are.
(eve)- i once thought i knew who you were. i once thought i understood where i was, where this was headed. i realize now, that there may be things i’m never certain of.
that doesnt mean you’re not out there. life is mysterious, it is mythic, to be lived fully, and should be revered as such. as deep, wide, and all-consuming. it should be looked at as an adventure.
and if living in this adventure means being uncertain of more things than i am certain of, then so be it.
because it will be worth it. because following this story through to the end, because reading this opus, because getting lost in the myth, will be worth it.
because you, loving you, will be worth it.
so i will live in the adventure now, to be ready for that time. i will jump headlong into the story of my life. and when you appear, i will be ready.
future of forestry – set your sails
there are nights when i find it difficult to breathe. when a tightness constricts my chest. nights when i wonder if ive done what i should have. if my past, dictates my future.
nights when i wonder what could have happened. if only id done or not done….
nights when the worries of this world, the storm of voices swirling around my head, voices of accusation, self-doubt, my own fears and concerns, never let up.
there are nights when the questions i never allow myself to verbalize keep me up much later than i sometimes let on.
some time ago, i wrote about (eve), and although at the time i didnt make the post public, i felt i should. why? because so much of what started with that post is still at work within me.
so much of what im going through right now, rediscovering my heart, my passion, what fills me, and makes me alive, started with that post. with realizing that in some respects, if you’re a single male over the age of 18, you’re an (adam).
you’re walking through this life doing your best to become the man you want to be. if you’re lucky, you’ve had men in your life who’ve shown you the ropes, who’ve guided you through the confusing world of women, responsibilities, and what it means to be a man.
if you’re really lucky, you’ve had a man who knew the value of the wilderness. who has fought his own battles and has the scars to prove it. a man who understands what it feels like to be alone, and to strike out on his own. a man who knows what failure feels like, and who knows what its like to pick himself up, and move on.
a man who’s faced his demons, and is the better for it.
a man who may walk, in so many ways, with a limp, but in all purposes of the word, a man.
a man who understands who his God is. who knows intimately what it means to depend on someone greater than him. and by default of his willingness to learn and lean on His great God, a man who knows the value of the woman by His side.
and if you were to ask this woman, if she knew she was loved, there would be no doubt in her eyes as she gave you her answer.
i keep coming back to this, but there is great value in the process. in going through what we’ve been called to go through.
and tonight, that is what i’m going to cling to. i am going to realize that i am really, really lucky. because i have a man i can follow. One who understands the value of the wilderness. One who has faced demons, and bears the scars to prove it. a man who understood feeling alone, and what it means to walk a road no one has walked before. a man who understands our failures more intimately than we do.
a man who in every meaning of the word, is a man
i am going to depend on this Someone greater than me. i am going to rest in the truth that my past does not dictate my future. i am going to trust, that He is greater than anything i will face in this life.
and i’m going to pray the same for you.
Future of Forestry – All I Want
I will go where glory meets the crude and weak
I will go where mercy meets the shame
I will go where strength will find the small and meek
I will go where magic meets mundane
And Youre all I want, Youre all I want
Youre all Ill find
You have my heart forever
You are all that I could need
I will go where grace and healing love restores
I will go where peace and rest is known
I will go where friendship finds my heart in yours
I will go where beauty leads me home
throughout our lives, we will constantly be faced with choices. with questions demanding answers. situations demanding action. challenges demanding we overcome, or surrender. and not all choices, not all situations, not all intersecting paths on the roads we walk will have a clear right and wrong. we wont always understand why we’re facing the challenge placed before us. we wont always know exactly what to do. or why we have to do it.
sometimes we’re given choices to allow us an opportunity to bless another, sometimes the intersection allows us to challenge and stretch ourselves, to force us out of our comfort zone. and sometimes we’re given choices that set our course, that make us. that close one chapter of our lives and open another. choices that brings questions, that uncover truth. choices that bring hope. choices that write our stories.
a few weeks ago, i stood in a place i’d never been. followed a road id never seen. looking out into a beauty i’d never known. and it was in that moment that i knew the rest of this year would hold choices. opportunities to climb, or stumble. to become a better person, or to fall. choices to judge and belittle, or to love because we were first loved. and in those choices, in choosing to love, we gain an opportunity to uncover what true love actually means. its in those moments, when we chose to love even though it doesnt make sense, even though we may have been wronged, even when we’re not sure why, that our eyes are opened. we begin to realize how much of what we have is a gift; we begin to see those around us as gifts, we begin to see their value. we begin to understand how much each are worth. we see. we understand. or we at least begin to realize how precious they are.
when we begin to see someones real value, we begin to understand why an all powerful and all knowing being, would chose to love them. when we begin to see them, as He sees them, we begin to see real, pure love.
i’m learning that sometimes the bravest thing we can do, is surrender. to take what we’ve been given, and give it away. to take that understanding, that glimmer of truth, and use it. sometimes the bravest thing we can do is tell someone they matter. that they were created with a purpose, with a plan. and that even if they dont see it, that they were created with intention. that there is nothing about their existence that is accidental.
that they are worthy of love. and lovely.
that they are beautiful.
i want eyes like that. eyes that see those around me not as friends and family, coworkers and fellow commuters, but as created beings birthed from a love that we have not yet begun to understand. i want to see the world as He does. because that world is true, it’s more real than anything else you and i will ever experience on earth. it’s beauty, in its rarest form.
and its how i want to see.
it was in that moment, overlooking this field you see above, that i understood i was looking at beauty. that i was challenged. that i was given a choice. challenged in my role. in being a man. in becoming the man, the person, the son, i want to be. i was challenged with what i see. with how i see the world, and those around me.
The kingdom of heaven is like something precious buried in a field, which a man found and hid again; then in his joy he goes and sells all he has and buys that field.
Matthew 13:44
on the roads we walk throughout our lives, we will constantly be faced with choices. we will be asked to do different things in different situations. to play different roles. to love differently, individually. to love as He would love, if He were to have walked that road. sometimes we will be lead to a field, and if we follow, if we chose to walk where He would have us walk, we uncover a treasure of worth beyond words.
i’m sure we would all hope, that in those moments, the treasure we find would be ours to keep. that we would be the one chosen, the one to run and sell all we have to buy the field, to obtain the treasure. but im learning that there will be times when we’re asked to stand as defenders around the field. to protect the treasure, to keep it safe. to shelter and cherish and value it. to keep it secure and far from harm until the one meant to uncover it, is ready to do so.
standing in that field, seeing that treasure, challenged me. made me realize, again, that i have a choice. and if i want to be the man, the person, the son, the husband and father i want to be, then i’ve got a role to play. along the roads im asked to walk, should i uncover a treasure, should i be the one chosen, then i will be overjoyed, i will run and sell all i own to buy this field, to obtain the treasure.
until that time, i will stand guard over this field. i will tell someone they matter. that they were created with a purpose, with a plan. and that even if they dont see it, that they were created with intention. that there is nothing about their existence that is accidental. that their story is worth protecting. that there is tremendous value in the center of who they are, in the center of the story being told through their life. because the story being told in their life, right now, is worth cherishing, is worth the fervor needed to protect the ending. because they, this field, is worth protecting.
because they are worthy of love. and lovely.
because they are beautiful.
caedmon’s call – ten thousand angels
how long you have traveled in darkness weeping
no rest in language, no words to speak
but there in the wreckage beneath bricks and bindings
love has come, love has come for you
against the night sky of your waiting
your face is like starlight when he walks in
everything worth keeping comes through dying
love has come, love has come for you
so lift up your heart now, to this unfolding
all that has been broken will be restored
here runs deep waters for all who are thirsty
love has come, love has come for you
ten thousand angels will light your pathway
until the day breaks fully in the East
they will surround you and make your way straight
love has come, love has come for you
love has come, love has come for you
why is it that i always run?
it’s my coping mechanism. i keep myself as busy as possible to ignore my own pain. and it took this past week for me to actually realize this. that i’m in pain, that i hurt. that there are things inside of me that hurt in ways i didnt know possible. and to avoid the pain, to stay in front of it, i run. i pack my workday with work, my evenings with more work, and when i’m not working im distracting myself with a book, excercise, tv, music or any number of other ‘medications’. anything, as long as it dulled the pain.
i run.
because i didnt want to feel.
this week, forced me to slow down.
in just a few short hours my final day of vacation ends. and to be honest, i dont know what to do. this past week was a waterfall to a parched land. it was life, breathed into me.
this week reminded me of so much. i saw beauty. pure, untouched beauty placed inside of those who call me friend. i saw friendship, in its most amazing state. i saw love. new love between those recently married. and old love, tried by fire but burning brightly between those closer to being grandparents and great-grandparents than newlyweds.
i said hello to new things, and goodbye to the old.
the flashes of brilliant light no longer offered just a peek into the beauty and future of someone i cared for, but a glimpse into my own life. into the promises that have been on hold. the promises i had given up on. the promises of joy, of color, of friendship and beauty, the promises of redemption and of love.
the promises that, if i’m honest, i thought were gone.
but most of all, i saw beauty.
there were moments when all i wanted to do was watch, see how these amazing people lived their lives. stand in awe of the simple fact that they call me friend. i slowed down. and i was caught unaware, by the beauty that was all around me.
the pain came too. it did. and it will continue to do so. but im going to work through that. i’m going to unpack the garage and find my heart again.
because i now know im not alone.
and beyond all the other blessings this week held, knowing that, knowing that i’m not alone, is worth more to me than anything i’ve ever been given.
beth and aaron, jenna and pete, val, robbie, denis, wendy, jen, april – thank you.
Future of Forestry – Slow Your Breath Down
this chest is full of memories
of gold and silver tears
i’ll give you more to own than all of this
and i’ll give you more than years
for you were once a child of innocence
and i see you just the same
your burdens couldnt win or lose a thing
oh i’d tell you once again
but you’re always on the run
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your heart now, oh
you can trust in love again
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your smile now, oh
you can trust in love again
if you leave, i’ll still be close to you
when all your fears rain down
i’ll take you back a thousand times again
and i’ll take you as my own
i will sing you songs of innocence
till the light of morning comes
till the rays of golden honey cover you
in the sweetness of the dawn
but you’re always on the run
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your heart now oh
you can trust in love again
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your smile now oh
you can trust in love again
you’re not alone
you’re now a part of me
you feel the cure
i feel the toil it brought you
so much can change in 24 hours, and so much can be uncovered. in just a moment, dreams can be fulfilled, passions fueled and our wildest imaginations can become reality. in just a moment, hearts can break. and we can be left picking up the pieces.
and in just a moment, our lives no longer make as much sense as they once did.
sometimes it takes a moment of heartache to shake lose the paint thats has been crumbling, and allow the failing posts to appear from behind their whitewashed exterior.
i wish it didnt take something harsh to rip away the mask. that i’d be more willing to allow it to drop and deal with the issues at hand, find healing….
but i’m not. i much prefer to run around with a hammer, nails and a paint brush and work fervently to keep the crumbling facade in a state of perpetual well-painted disrepair.
i prefer the masks.
because i’m done with the pain. i’m done dealing with it. surviving around it, pretending its not there. my heart is is like the jalopy you’ve had parked in the garage for years, taking up space in hopes that someday in the future you’ll find someone with the knowledge, skills, time and desire to fix what was broken. and although you’ve tried, you cannot remember the last time it worked, the last time it actually ran.
at some point, you decide that its not worth keeping any longer, that its just easier to start with a clean slate. you’ve got some boxes that could be stored in the garage, if only you had the room. you dont see any value in keeping this old car. it doesnt work and its more rust and holes than metal and paint. so you make a phone call, and have the old heap towed to the dump.
at some point, you decide your heart isnt worth keeping any longer. that its just easier not to feel anything. you’ve got something that resembles a life to live, and the pain that takes your breath away, now just gets in the way of going through those oh-so-important motions. so you make the decision, that love, that loving, just isnt worth it. so you banish your heart to the far comers of your existence. you chose to live as robotic as possible. you stuff those boxes in and around the holes in your heart, and in time, you forget its there.
you dont go out to the garage anymore.
and it’s not until a fierce storm knocks down a tree and damages the roof of the garage that you’re forced to open the doors, and you’re reacquainted with your heart. and you realize again how much of a mess everything is. and how broken everything is. and you dont honestly see how something this broken can be made whole.
so you patch up the garage, close the door, and move on with your life. you go through the motions, hoping that the storms of life will bypass your garage and that you wont have to deal with the brokenness that exists inside of your chest.
we can want that, we can hope and pray and pretend that the storms will pass us by. and if we’re lucky, we’ll live a fair portion of our lives storm free. but inevitably, storms come.
and its in those moments, when we’re forced to confront who we are, who we’ve become, the decisions we’ve made and the clutter we’ve hidden, that we take our biggest steps. that our destinies are written, and rewritten.
it’s in those moments that chapters end, and new chapters begin. that we change. that we find the courage we never had, and the beauty that existed inside of us all along.
and its in those moments, that we make the decisions that set the course for the rest of our lives.
we either patch up the garage, and go about the motions, or we leave the doors open, and begin the painful process of unpacking our hearts. of facing the holes, the rust, the stains and the brokenness. of facing the pain and dealing with it….
even if it means we hurt.
we either continue something that resembles living, or we allow ourselves to be deconstructed, in the hope of one day, finding this thing called life. in the hope of finding it abundantly.
Future of Forestry – Sanctitatis
i think, if we’re honest with ourselves, we would say we were each left with questions. we would nod our heads and agree that we could each remember a time when those who came before us, who were supposed to build us up, show us the ropes, explain how to work this thing called life, those people, dropped the ball.
i think we were all left with questions.
we’d knock our glasses together, give each other looks that say ‘we understand’ and drink to the fact that we all have life experiences that echo the same questions.
we’d pat shoulders, and give hugs. we’d be there for each other and support each other through the act of simple remembrance. remembering when we first asked these questions, when we first lived through these experiences of not knowing. of waking up every morning and questioning if we have what it takes. if we have what it takes to be the man or woman we want to see staring back at us in the mirror. if we can be successful. if we’re intelligent, smart, handsome or beautiful.
i think we all have our own questions. as much as it’s a shared experience, the questions are very personal. and the ones you may struggle with, i may not. but as diverse, personal and individual the questions are, i believe if we peeled away the layers, if we looked deeper, we would all come to the place where at the heart of the issue, beats one question.
am i worthy?
and the sad thing, is that most of us will live our entire lives avoiding the answers. we’ll live our lives so shallow, drowning in the circumstantial, that the questions will never get faced. we will never allow ourselves to face the pain that those questions left us with.
maybe the question was first given to you by an experience in your childhood. maybe it was a heartbreak in your teen years, or the abandonment of someone close. maybe it was innocence that was stripped away. maybe it was as simple as someone important not taking the time to show you what they were supposed to show you.
however the questions present themselves, if you’re like me, this is the question you’ve realized you’ve been asking all this time. am i worthy? am i worth it?
am i worth the love of a woman?
the love of a Saviour?
will i live my life avoiding the answers? will i whitewash the walls? will i constrain myself to live in shallow tidal pools all the while dreaming of distant shorelines? or will i ask the only question that actually matters?
will i ask to be written into the great story? will i ask to be written into the song of grace? the song that started millenia ago and that is being woven together even today?
inside of that story, the questions that haunt us find their answers. the wounds we carry, find healing. and our scars, become medals. in that story, in that great overarching story written by an Author far beyond our comprehension, we find grace, we find beauty, we find we are beautiful, and we find freedom.
in that story, its not that the question gets answered. it’s that we realize, that it never really mattered.
one sonic society – burn
this weekend is full of memories. there is something about Memorial day weekend that seems to cause moments of more depth, of more story than other weekends. maybe it’s that this weekend heralds the soon arriving summer, or that it is on this weekend we pause and honestly remember. we remember those who fought and those who died, protecting the liberties and freedoms we take so often for granted.
this weekend brings memories of happy times. of camp fires, smores, trips to the lake. and it also brings with it memories that are wholly different. memories not of what did happen, but of what didnt.
memories, seem to be the theme, the subject, the story that is being told right now. i’ve caught myself more this weekend then i have in a long time, remembering. thinking back. and in some ways, looking forward.
thinking back to a time many years ago when life seemed simpler. when friends were closer and when joy was easier. when following this path, when writing this story was easier than it is now.
do i regret the decisions i’ve made between then and now? some of them, yes, absolutely. i think if we’re honest, we would all say we have things we wish we’d done and didnt, or that we did, and would give our right arm to have never done. we’ve all hungered after grace, after forgiveness, even if we didnt know it was what we needed. our stories, if they share any common thread, is that we all made mistakes, we all failed at something. that our memories, our stories of times past aren’t all full of golden moments. that there are dark times in our past, times we wished we could forget.
if anything though, it’s remembering those times, those times that remind us of old scars, memories that still need effort to push beyond, its in those memories that we find the tenacity, the desire, the will, drive and passion to make new memories. its in remembering those who’ve died for our freedoms that we remember we are free. it’s in stopping and letting the memory wash over us that we realize how far we’ve come, how the scars have healed, and in some cases, how far we have to go.
it’s in remembering, that we see our story that has been written. and it’s in remembering, that we see how many blank pages are yet to be written in.
this moment, right now, is a blank page. and how i chose to use it, the words i chose to write on it, are done so with indelible ink. once written, they will never be erased.
and my heart aches, in a good way. for the challenge, for the calling that i hear. to make these next pages count. to show those i love, that they’re loved. to love unconditionally, without fear. to learn what being a son means, and in the process, to discover what it means to be a man.
all we have, all we’re ever truly given, is a blank page and a pen. and the whispered call of the One we call Father, to follow His leading.
so as you sit, as i sit, on this day of Memorial, we should do just that. remember. remember where we’ve come from, and remember those who sacrificed their all in defense of freedom. of the freedom for us to write our own stories. and may we also look forward, to the blank pages.
may we pick up our pens, and write our stories. and may our stories, be worth telling.
Future of Forestry – Close Your Eyes
what is it about performance that scares so many of us? that keep us from pursuing our dreams or following what we love? have we bought into the lie that if we cannot be the best at whatever it is we want to try, that we shouldnt try it? why is it that we, that i believe that if i cant nail it on the first try, it’s not worth trying?
what is it about failure that we fear? that i fear?
why can i not simply accept the fact that i am loved by a perfect God? that i’m playing a role in my own story, and that i want it to be one worth reading? why dont i realize that the books i read are exciting and full of life because the protagonist faces a challenge of overwhelming odds and yet doesnt turn away?
why dont i realize that it’s in these stories that the protagonist becomes the man he was meant to be, that it’s the journey as much as it is the destination that makes the story a story? that it’s the battles, the victories, and yes, the losses, that make the story one worth telling and retelling.
without risk, without reward, without there being an overwhelming obstacle and without a reason to face that obstacle, there is no story.
tonight im faced with the challenge that in a lot of ways, i may be my own biggest obstacle. and if we’re honest with ourselves, that may be the same for a lot of us.
yes, we can blame our parents, our upbringing, the ways we were or werent treated. we can point to our history and share our stories and say that it’s not our fault. but when you strip all that away, no one holds you back from your dreams with any more power than you give them.
i think the rest of this year will be me facing myself. my own fears, fears of failure. fears of trying new things and allowing myself to bask in the grace that is so freely given.
isnt that what life was meant to be? loving enough to allow others to stumble? loving them so much that the freedom of trying something new, of stepping on toes and painting outside the lines becomes the reality that you live in?
i struggle with that. i do.
i like order and neatness and patterns.
but thats not all there is to life.
we forget that we were created. and if we were actually created, than there was a creator. and if there was a creator, then creativity is what literally gave us life. we’ve forgotten that it was love, passionate overwhelming love that created us.
we’ve forgotten that creativity was the very art form that breathed life into everything we see around us. we, you and i, are pieces of art.
and it’s that art that i want to fall in love with. i want to fall in love with the art, the beauty that exists inside of each of us. inside of you. i want to fall in love with music and passion and pottery and dancing. i want to fall in love with a creative spirit. and i want to rediscover the creative that lives in me.
Future of Forestry – Slow Your Breath Down
this chest is full of memories
of gold and silver tears
i’ll give you more to own than all of this
and i’ll give you more than years
for you were once a child of innocence
and i see you just the same
your burdens couldnt win or lose a thing
oh i’d tell you once again
but you’re always on the run
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your heart now, oh
you can trust in love again
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your smile now, oh
you can trust in love again
if you leave, i’ll still be close to you
when all your fears rain down
i’ll take you back a thousand times again
and i’ll take you as my own
i will sing you songs of innocence
till the light of morning comes
till the rays of golden honey cover you
in the sweetness of the dawn
but you’re always on the run
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your heart now oh
you can trust in love again
slow your breath down
just take it slow
find your smile now oh
you can trust in love again
you’re not alone
you’re now a part of me
you feel the cure
i feel the toil it brought you
i got a raise this week. a big raise.
part of me was thrilled. part of me was thankful that the company noticed my efforts and rewarded as such. and for the rest of that day, i was filled with a temporal sense of happiness. but then something changed. and i think i’m only now beginning to understand.
my prayers of late have been those of struggle, of wanting to let go but fighting to hold on. they have been those asking to be saved from the kingdom of self.
i wondered earlier this week, why the raise didnt make me happier. why things didnt seem lighter or easier to deal with. and i think im finally realizing that things will never fill the void. i’ve always known that. but i think that changes when you hit thirty. and your attention shifts from work, the career, getting ahead, to the things that have a more eternal value.
our focuses shift to family, friends, and that place called home. to the bigger story that each chapter of our lives has thus far alluded to. and as our focus, as my focus shifts, i realize again that i dont want to be king. i dont want to live my life pursuing my own comforts.
i want a battle to fight, a girl to fight for, and a story to live.
in a million miles in a thousand years donald miller writes about his experience of having a movie made about his first book. a movie, literally made about his life. and its during the making of the movie that he realizes that a movie about his life would be boring. because his life, was boring. his life wasnt a story worth telling.
i want a story, stories, worth telling. stories of the battles, the girl, and amazing grace. stories full of hope.
because it’s in those things, its in the heat of the battle that we learn the value of life. it’s in the love and beauty of a woman that man finally begins to understand the mystery of grace. and it’s in living through the story being told, that we see ineffable proof of an Author who cares more for us than we’ve yet begun to comprehend.
and if it takes walking through the storm, the storms, to get to the place where i can be that man. the man who will fight, who will love, and who will follow the King of all stories…. then so be it.
i hate fear.
i hate it with a passion. a hatred that is deep. down inside the most basic parts of who i am. i hate what fear does, and what it keeps me from doing. i hate how much i dislike confrontation. how much my own fear keeps me from pursuing the things i want to. i hate that i gave in to the fear that i wasnt worthy of this, of pursuing the girl, of joy and happiness and actual life in life.
i hate that there are moments when the fear i feel is so overwhelming i’m almost rendered motionless. i hate that im terrified of abandonment, of not being good enough, of failing, of not being love-able.
what i hate the most, is that part of me knows that the fear, as real as it seems, isnt the truth.
i could show you my scars. the scars that lead to each and every fear i have. i could tell you the depth of the pain, let you see the damage done. i could share with you the stories of heart-break that ive lived through. i could easily prove to you why i fear. and why fear is something i hate.
but what i really want, is to break free.
there. i said it.
i. want. to. break. free.
why? because there is a girl, and she is worth it, because life is worth it. because i am worth it.
i’m not sitting on the sidelines any longer.
i may never have all the answers, and i cannot promise to be perfect or love the girl the way she deserves. but i’m going to try. i’m going to follow the King who’s name i proclaim. it means, this means war.
i will trust Him….
i will break free.
FindingTheCourageToDream.com 